When a person/people suck the life out of you.... what to do:

After counseling someone who has really been tried and tested (and off course i ve walked out this extra mile myself...) i feel to share the following & i pray it will help you to make WISE LIFE CHOICES when it comes to making a choice for your own good for your own life, when you find someone or some people sucking the life out of you!

Dare to read what the Word of God (His Mouth) has to say about it and let s follow His wise advice: "DO NOT BE DECEIVED...EVIL COMPANY CORRUPTS GOOD HABITS" 1 Cor 15:33

Lets be very real i can say from FIRST HAND EXPERIENCE OVER A LIFETIME of 43 years...bad relationships and friendships do have the potential to destroy ability of millions of people all over the world!  Be assured my friend who cannot increase you in this life will sure some time eventually decrease you. Be warned if they re not taking you higher they re gonna take you lower! Dare to sit down and examine the people occupying time in your life and dare to start seperate yourself from the spiritual leeches!

As for me i follow Jesus s example, i allow two kinds of friends into my life: those who minister to me & those who allow me to minister to them being ministry in Him through Him unto Him. Jesus did not spend time with Pharisees & so am i not spending time with pharisees of our day and hour!  they did not listen to Him because they were just too religeous...such are still around this day and hour in our circles!

What would you answer if i d be asking you: "do you feel worn out, spiritually dead, dry, lonely?".... who is around you my friend? Is someone in your inner circle sucking the life out of you like a vampire or a tick!? Are you walking with someone you cant even talk with?  If you cant share your deepest inner feelings dreams fears in safety there s a big problem....you are then nothing else than being locked up inside and this kind of friend will not even know it they ll just simply keep on grinning! ....

JESUS did not hang out hang around such person...such people...Be warned you wont receive any life giving ministry as long as you have a bunch of "zero's"around you! they cannot help you, but they can usually manage anyone else from helping you!!!  they cant take you anywhere with all their bad baggage cluttering your life, they will keep anyone else from even trying to take you to a new place.

Hard core truth is this: you have to get the zero's out the way! stop wasting your time with non productive relationships, dont even feel quilty about making change! All of them had the same opportunity you did, they can choose Christ too and pursue His purposes with their hearts or they can keep their "zero growth zero effort zero results"game plan! The problem is theirs not yours YOU CHOSE CHRIST JESUS and that means you just follow Him with everything you have!

"our Father thank You for sending us Jesus Christ Your Son to rescue us from darkness and translate us into the Kingdom of Your Light! Now it s time to report to Basic Training!  Guide us, guide our steps and strengthen us as we trim away the unproductive openly evil relationships in our lives! Help us to be powerful witnesses for You and Your Kingdom throughout this change of enviroment in Jesus Name i pray Amen. "

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TANIA BISSET