Tania Bisset: TO ALL THE SINGLES OUT THERE.... with all my love mwahx

CHOOSING A MATE...

1 Cor 7:27/28 “but and if you marry, you have not sinned and if a virgin marry, she has not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh but i spare you. Paul is talking here about two Christians having trouble in the flesh. (well those hooked up with spouse ( married not singles) who is not saved you re going to have double trouble in the flesh!

Singles, whatever happenend to you in the past, you have to forget. Start working on God s ideal for marriage NOW. If you have not married YET then simply learn the word of God what it says, be sure to enter marriage according to His Word.

It is God s will for a Christian to marry only a another Christian. Going to share few aspects with you on how to choose a mate... don’t take entering marriage lightly ever! It is a solemn & sacred, beautiful thing! Never rush into marriage hastily! I know a couple who wanted to get married HASTILY after they met at a gospel mass crusade where he just encountered the Lord...everything in me said no no no but some people said “they re both Christians now” that is true sure, but there is the will of God in things too...

Well they married knowing very little of each other...( you need to KNOW a person long enough to find out more about him her) Jealousy played a key role from his side...anger followed...she stood it long she could...then she could not stand pressure any more & could no longer live in that circumstance... they divorced... well needless to say he did not make it in the ministry..why? off course he was not living for God the way he should have! No guy who loses his temper, breaks furniture, beats up his wife is in fellowship with God! I d say he is more in fellowship with the devil!

Singles, if you re considering to marry a divorced person find out why that person got divorced. If the person you re marrying was the instigator of the divorce you don’t want to get involved with him or her....you will end up helping that person reap the seeds he or she has sown... now if the person was an innocent party that s a different situation altogether...

Warning to singles, LISTEN TO WARNINGS....many times we re told but don’t listen...love is blind indeed! None as blind as those who don’t want to see!

Can you choose any mate you want? You can believe God for everything the word of God promises you or provides for you. You cant believe beyond it. That s where people get real big trouble... why cant you?” Romans 10:17 so then faith comes by hearing and hearing by the word of God.” Faith is based on what God s word is saying. You cannot believe out beyond the knowledge of God s word.

Example: a pastor speaking in tongues was kicked out from a church so he went to business by himself and then went to biggest church in city. He was unattached. He told of this beautiful lady who sang in the choir and since “you can have what you say” and “whatever you desire just pray believe receive” (Mark 11:24) he was going to pray believe receive this beautiful lady as his wife...

But you cannot read into the Bible where God s word says “I promise John that he can have Mary as a wife” Mary might not want to be his wife! John might just as well be well of withour her anyhow!

Asked this pastor, do you ever talk to her? Have u ever had a date with her? NO NO NO....off course Sunday mornings his eyes were all eyes on her....(not on Jesus) off course he believed he confessed it would come to pass...that s faith ( really get real?) under what conditions would it come to pass if he believed it strongly enough? No faith comes by hearing & hearing by the Word of God. (Rom 10:17) and the word of God says “who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtain favour of the Lord” (prov 18:22)

You see you have to do something about it...The Lord will lead you and guide you...you have a right to claim that He will lead you. But just don’t pick out someone and say “i m going to believe God and she or he is going to be my wife my husband “it is unscriptual! (as said she might not want to be your wife or he might not want to be your husband) where another persons will comes to play in the matter you are not going to be able to override his her will... settle that once and for all! God Himself does not even override our human will however we so easily override His will...

BELIEVE GOD FOR A MATE...

A long time back someone asked me “do i have the right to believe God for a mate?” off course yes i said and told her what Bible says Prov 18:22...i told her you cant just claim anyone now, no. Now you have to ask God to lead you. Claim His guidance by faith let Him work it out because you believe Him!

Recently someone came to me afer ministry session said “do you remember me?” the face looked familiar... she gave her name still could not remember. She said well at one of your meetings way back you called me out said to me the Lord is saying not to marry right now he had something better for me...” IMMEDIATELLY i was reminded by Spirit of The lord...she said “well here he is”oh so happily! Then she told me that they were both in Bible college preparing for ministry she said she would have made a fatal mistake. She said she so thankful The Lord arrested her and ministered to her that day...they re so happy! And they re working for God” Yep, He had something better for her...

We can believe God and excercise faith for anything and everything that is promised in His Word. Faith is based on hearing what God s word is saying.

Getting into areas beyond the word we get into grey areas into dark areas... as long as you re in the word you re in light you re on safe ground, sure ground. You can trust God for His guidance. He promised to guide you. You can claim guidance by faith. You can say “The Lord is guiding me He is leading me I may not see it at the moment I may not even know it right now at this moment but He is my guide and i am trusting Him”

Do remember Romans 8:14 “for as many as are LED BY THE SPIRIT OF GO they are the sons/daughters of God...”He will guide you but remember the Lord just leads ONE STEP ONE DAY AT A TIME..

I waited 5 years for my blessing hubby!! !

Love you all to life for Life mwahx